Maintaining relationships is tough, especially when they’re going up against a busy work schedule, maintaining the house, and taking care of children and/or parents. And if your children or parents live far away from you, it requires even more effort and attention. With today’s technology, you would think staying in touch would be a little easier. However, with easy communication comes too much of it! So much in fact, that it starts to feel impersonal.
For friends and family that are long-distance, writing a post on their social media or sending a text doesn’t feel like enough. In these cases, it’s actually more effective to communicate the snail mail way, by sending thoughtful and meaningful gifts that can reignite that connection with a loved one. Here are a few ideas that can help you feel closer to your far away family members.
Rather than sending gifts for the holidays, focus on giving random gifts to far away family
Family and friends have come to expect the routine holiday gift. Even if the gift is thoughtful, the idea of gift giving over the holidays has become almost something you have to do. To show family that you’re thinking of them when you want to, rather than have to, try sending gifts to your far away family “just because.” This way, it comes as a surprise to them and will inspire them to make time for a catch-up call.
We Take The Cake customer LuAnn Lanke decided to send a triple chocolate Bundt cake as a surprise gift to friends who had helped her with a project. “They were delighted! Not only was the cake delicious, the presentation is wonderful and made our friends feel special. It was a perfect surprise.”
Leverage a personal touch for your long-distance family with a customized gift
The Internet has afforded us the opportunity to get almost anything customized these days. If your son is a sports fan in college, for example, you have the ability to order him a jersey from his favorite sports team with his name inserted on the back just like the pros! The personal touch makes the gift something unique, made especially for the person receiving the gift.
The trick to making it thoughtful is to think of a funny memory or a favorite hobby of your far away family member and play off that memory or hobby with something custom. You can add artwork from a certain memory to food, clothing, and even coffee mugs. There are so many ways to get creative and make sure it’s clear that your gift was made especially for them!
If you can’t be there in the present, a tasty treat can still leave family talking
The old adage is true, “they may forget what you said, but they’ll never forget how you made them feel.” And what greater feeling than one that comes after enjoying a mouth-watering, tasty sweet? Cakes, cupcakes, and other scrumptious desserts are the perfect gift for celebrating when you can’t be there.
Just ask Joanne Taylor from Michigan – “I sent a cake to my son in college for his birthday, and not only did he love the surprise but a week later I received a text saying, “I think this is the best cake I have ever eaten…Send me another one soon!”
The best gifts can start new tradition with far away friends and family
Taking the “sending random gifts” idea one step further, a way to develop a closer bond with far away family throughout the year could come from starting a tradition of celebrating one of those crazy national holidays. While they might feel like they only exist for social media, why not bring these wacky holidays into the real world?
National Best Friend Day sounds like the perfect excuse to let a dear friend know you’re thinking about them and put a smile on their face with an unexpected and thoughtful gift. Or perhaps your aunt who you only see once a year loves strawberries. Why not use National Strawberry Day to start a tradition of sending fun and unique strawberry gifts back and forth each year? It’s unique spins on gift giving like these that make your relationships feel closer than distance has us believe.
We Take The Cake takes the stress and prep out of your far away gift giving
At We Take The Cake, cake isn’t just a dessert. It’s a symbol of celebration, happiness, friends, and family. We pride ourselves on perfecting our craft, sure, but it’s the smile we put on your loved one’s faces that make our dreams become a reality.
It’s easy to get busy, overwhelmed, and caught up in your own to-do list that you oftentimes forget what day it is, much less a loved one’s birthday. And even if you don’t want it to be, shopping for the right gift can feel like a daunting and time-consuming task. But that’s where we come in!
We take the headaches and stress out of finding the perfect gift and we put it into a delicious, beautiful cake! Whether it’s for a birthday or just because, all you have to do is choose your sweet of choice, fill out the details, and let us take care of making your loved one smile.